People said the best parenting advice came from people who don't have kids.. I believe its true because when I have my own kids, i've followed non of the advice, give non but shared a lot of happy memories with other mom.
I've read few books on parenting tips but in the end, you know your kids and the best way to do it is by "redah-je-with-knowledge" concept. there is no right or wrong way.. just the best that we can do for our kids and lots and lots of pray that they will turn out ok.. just like when we were little how we hate our mom and dad's way of bringing us up but we grown up to be who we are because of them?
sometimes i kind of regret not spending more time with them. but then again, i should take full advantage of the time that i have with them so that every moments counts. i wish they will remember the good times they had with their ibu when they grow up.
i'm not perfect. i have my ups and downs. i'm a bit "garang' with them sometimes. it is a challenge to raise kids in todays environment. but i try my best to show them the rights from the wrong. i hope and i pray Allah will show them the right way.
In the end, i will try my best to bring them up and they will turn out fine. maybe better than me.. Amin
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